As I read the interview, I didn’t think to myself, “John Mayer is doing something sinful,” or “Why doesn’t he realize that what he’s doing is wrong?” My only thought was, John Mayer has habituated himself such that he is incapable of loving someone and receiving her love. His addiction has actually nullified his greatest human potential: the capacity, rooted in his moral freedom, to make of himself a total gift to another person and to freely receive her free commitment of love as gift in return
with backward mutters of dissevering power
"The spell must be unwound, bit by bit…" C.S. Lewis
with backward mutters of dissevering power 